Preparation for The Engagement Day

Her
4 feb 2009 1.44 pm

It has been so long since the last post...traveling from Jengka to Kl every weekend is d*** tiring...really really do...this last few weeks me and him have been in deeply loving mode...hehehe
despite all the busyness, we do spent lots of time together...he's not feeling well for quite a long time...but Thank God that he is ok now...

24 days to go…so many things need to be done…long way to go…
Thank God you are always there dear…

My diary is full with list of ‘things need to be done’

1. Invitation for guests
-map to mama’s house
-list of name

2. Gift bag:
-that small card
-decoration for the bag

3. ‘Baju Tunang’ (hopefully the ‘baju’ is as beautiful as I imagine it will be…worry about the
baju…cant wait to see how it looks)
- fitting on 13 feb 2009
- make up (hope it can makes me prettier than ever…hehehe)
- accessories (hope can get that butterfly diamond…:)
- shoes (dear will help me finds the right one this coming Friday…missing him…:)
- ‘tudung’ must be bought by this week…

4. ‘Hantaran’
- not yet finished but 40% done…only can spend weekend time to do it…lot more to
be done…every single things that needed for the hantaran have been bought…just need
more time…thanks Nida, Ila, Ibu, Mama and Kak Anum for helping a lot…we spent our
whole Saturday on doing it…especially my wedding organizer…Nida my beloved cousin…I
know you are tired just like me…hehehe

5. Canopy
- Alhamdulillah, salman helps a lot….get what I dream of…that Arabic canopy for a reasonable
price…heheheh…thanks man

6. Photography
- Still looking for photographer with reasonable price…never thought it could be that
expensive nowadays…waiting for dear to get his friend’s number…

7. Food
- Should be no problem…the menu keep changing from time to time…hehehe…Ibu and Mama
will cook for the day…hmmm…I love their cooking…

8. Miscellaneous
- 'Sirih junjung', cupcakes, cakes, 'alas dulang hantaran', 'alas dulang'

Did I miss anything here????

Forgot my top priority…super number one which is my beloved becoming fiancé…;)

Preparation for him including:
-special engagement gift for him…suprised:)
-days out as we planned;)

I’ll pray to Allah so that everything will be great on that day…Im flattered with this experience…


Him
4 feb 2009 5.44 pm

Yes, another 24 days to go for the engagement day...

Personally I don want to come to the event as the traditional way only the boy's side went for the event... however Ive been 'forced' to come.. hehehehe for her.. anything... my preparation is also a headache for my side...

But all are still in order however not much as her la.. I guest so hehehhehe...

1. Hantaran..
Outsource to one of wedding expert in hantaran based in shah alam. All the hantaran things is ready and just wait for the end result...

2. Guest List..
Nightmare hehehe... I have a big family... decision time.. the cars for family (mama's side from Perlis/Kedah.. really appreciate for coming.. they will stay in my house in shah alam.. My daddy's from KL side will be there....

3. My Baju
Not much too worry... will be ready on 20th...

Only three hehehee...

The only concern is on the day itself.... the arrangement and the engagement events...
Insya-Allah.... everything going to be fine...

The Proposal

Her

19 jan 2009 3.44pm

He proposed me on the 28 september 2008...the most happiest day in my life...it happens so fast that it takes me just an eyes blink to say yes...:)

Never thought that he ll ever think of doing this kind of proposal...its just not him (thought I know him very well...hehehe)...it suprised me...touched my heart even until today...everytime I look at that piece of paper...God...it looks so sweet and humble...

He wished to make it true but as stated in the first paragraphs...'due to cost and others matter', he showed me the idea in that paper...that is more than enough for me...

Im not asking for more....you are such a sweet boyfriend...no one can ever be better than you...its true...saying it from my heart...

I ll keep that piece of paper together with me most of the times...cause it reminds me on how much you love me...thank you sayang...:)

Him

9 feb 2009 3.44am

She said to me a few weeks before 'you never proposed me'... and keep begging me to propose her hehehe...

I was thinking to do something romantic...and the only idea is to propose through 3d animation cartoon... but due to money constraint it has never come true...

However I already scratch a story line in a piece of paper with red ink pen...
I tried to search for 3d animation house and also friend's of my sister but the cost is expensive....

The story line is the story of my life with her since the incident... The proposal is nothing compared to what she has done (and still) for me...

So I decide to propose her with that piece of paper.. the rest is history hehehe...

'Merisik'

Flashback on the 28 December 2008

'Merisik', which is a customary visit by a groom aspirant to seek the parents' consent for an engagement with their daughter.


Him
13 jan 2009 5.18 a.m

28 December 2008 is not just a date but simply one of the important date of my life...
On that day, my parents, my uncle(spokeperson) and aunties, my sister and myself went to her parent's house for 'merisik'. With a ring for the event, on

The happiest day of my life.. a lot of arrangement....


Her
13 jan 2009 10.17am

True dearrrrrr...its the happiest day...thank you sayang...memuahhh

Everyone's looks incredibly happy...(not to mention us who are definitely flying high...hehe)...

I cant find any words to describe the happiness...now I find it hards to put things into words...hahaha...

I ll put in the details for the day as soon as I can find some free time...

Missing him now...:(