A Journey to Jengka

Him
15 feb 2009 5.03 pm

SMS received on 12 Feb 2009....
"XXXX,ni direction.Tol gmbk-rm5.tol bntong-rm3.tol karak-tiket,jmbt sg phg,exit 821 to plaza tol chnr,kg awah,pst bdar jngka-rm7.70 after tol turn right around 30km nk smpai bdr jengka.shell ptronas on d right.tnb on d left n u trn right.trus nmpk gate 'yyyy' on ur left."

My activity last week was to pick her up and sent her back on the next day...

At last... i arrrived in Jengka...or the full name Bandar Pusat Jengka... the last time ive been here was in year 2000...

The journey takes 2 hours or less depends on the speed... the highway part is just cruising... however the 30km normal road a bit dangerus.. worry la for her... for the record she drives very fast....
I also got free tour of Bandar Pusat Jengka and 'yyyy'.... the 7-eleven, post office, maybank,etc... i also got full tour of 'yyyy'...

Having breakfast in one of the shop... can't recall the name... and the 7-eleven does not sell newspaper hehehee....

Thanks to her for everything during my trip....

PS : XXXX stand for what?guess..sayang,honey,baby,etc.. what is 'yyyy'? JPJ jengka, Jengka 19, Pasaraya B5, etc hehehehe


Her
17 feb 2009 11.39am

Thanks for picked me up...it was so sweet of u...driving alone for a long hour is so tiring...when he insists to fetch me, im gladdddddddd....:)

Im not a fast driver as he mentioned...hehehe

This is a d*** tiring week...works on the weekend is killing the mood...but above all, friday with him is a cure for all trouble...it was the bestest that i ever had...
p/s:i think ive said it everytime kan...hahahaha

In need for a very long break...need a rest...tired...wish u are here...

May i answer the last question???hehehe
Thanks dear...

Preparation for The Engagement Day

Her
4 feb 2009 1.44 pm

It has been so long since the last post...traveling from Jengka to Kl every weekend is d*** tiring...really really do...this last few weeks me and him have been in deeply loving mode...hehehe
despite all the busyness, we do spent lots of time together...he's not feeling well for quite a long time...but Thank God that he is ok now...

24 days to go…so many things need to be done…long way to go…
Thank God you are always there dear…

My diary is full with list of ‘things need to be done’

1. Invitation for guests
-map to mama’s house
-list of name

2. Gift bag:
-that small card
-decoration for the bag

3. ‘Baju Tunang’ (hopefully the ‘baju’ is as beautiful as I imagine it will be…worry about the
baju…cant wait to see how it looks)
- fitting on 13 feb 2009
- make up (hope it can makes me prettier than ever…hehehe)
- accessories (hope can get that butterfly diamond…:)
- shoes (dear will help me finds the right one this coming Friday…missing him…:)
- ‘tudung’ must be bought by this week…

4. ‘Hantaran’
- not yet finished but 40% done…only can spend weekend time to do it…lot more to
be done…every single things that needed for the hantaran have been bought…just need
more time…thanks Nida, Ila, Ibu, Mama and Kak Anum for helping a lot…we spent our
whole Saturday on doing it…especially my wedding organizer…Nida my beloved cousin…I
know you are tired just like me…hehehe

5. Canopy
- Alhamdulillah, salman helps a lot….get what I dream of…that Arabic canopy for a reasonable
price…heheheh…thanks man

6. Photography
- Still looking for photographer with reasonable price…never thought it could be that
expensive nowadays…waiting for dear to get his friend’s number…

7. Food
- Should be no problem…the menu keep changing from time to time…hehehe…Ibu and Mama
will cook for the day…hmmm…I love their cooking…

8. Miscellaneous
- 'Sirih junjung', cupcakes, cakes, 'alas dulang hantaran', 'alas dulang'

Did I miss anything here????

Forgot my top priority…super number one which is my beloved becoming fiancé…;)

Preparation for him including:
-special engagement gift for him…suprised:)
-days out as we planned;)

I’ll pray to Allah so that everything will be great on that day…Im flattered with this experience…


Him
4 feb 2009 5.44 pm

Yes, another 24 days to go for the engagement day...

Personally I don want to come to the event as the traditional way only the boy's side went for the event... however Ive been 'forced' to come.. hehehehe for her.. anything... my preparation is also a headache for my side...

But all are still in order however not much as her la.. I guest so hehehhehe...

1. Hantaran..
Outsource to one of wedding expert in hantaran based in shah alam. All the hantaran things is ready and just wait for the end result...

2. Guest List..
Nightmare hehehe... I have a big family... decision time.. the cars for family (mama's side from Perlis/Kedah.. really appreciate for coming.. they will stay in my house in shah alam.. My daddy's from KL side will be there....

3. My Baju
Not much too worry... will be ready on 20th...

Only three hehehee...

The only concern is on the day itself.... the arrangement and the engagement events...
Insya-Allah.... everything going to be fine...

The Proposal

Her

19 jan 2009 3.44pm

He proposed me on the 28 september 2008...the most happiest day in my life...it happens so fast that it takes me just an eyes blink to say yes...:)

Never thought that he ll ever think of doing this kind of proposal...its just not him (thought I know him very well...hehehe)...it suprised me...touched my heart even until today...everytime I look at that piece of paper...God...it looks so sweet and humble...

He wished to make it true but as stated in the first paragraphs...'due to cost and others matter', he showed me the idea in that paper...that is more than enough for me...

Im not asking for more....you are such a sweet boyfriend...no one can ever be better than you...its true...saying it from my heart...

I ll keep that piece of paper together with me most of the times...cause it reminds me on how much you love me...thank you sayang...:)

Him

9 feb 2009 3.44am

She said to me a few weeks before 'you never proposed me'... and keep begging me to propose her hehehe...

I was thinking to do something romantic...and the only idea is to propose through 3d animation cartoon... but due to money constraint it has never come true...

However I already scratch a story line in a piece of paper with red ink pen...
I tried to search for 3d animation house and also friend's of my sister but the cost is expensive....

The story line is the story of my life with her since the incident... The proposal is nothing compared to what she has done (and still) for me...

So I decide to propose her with that piece of paper.. the rest is history hehehe...

Langkawi-Kedah

Her

13 jan 2009 10.57am

Langkawi trip...best trip ever...we were still friends at that time (I mean he and me)...btw, we are still bestfriend till now right dear...(he is the bestest buddy that anyone can ask for!!!!memuahhhhh)...hehehe

Back to Langkawi, we went with another two beloved buddies, miss f and mr s...hehehe

Ive got so many to talk about the trip starts with the hotel, the red saga car that we rent for one of our day, places that we visited, 'cok pisang' that he missed till now, the playstation that he brought, foods that we ate, chocolates that we bought, his family that joined us on the second day and bla bla bla...hehehe

We stayed at his house (Jitra is his hometown) for 2 nights which is for our first night before we went to Langkawi and for out last night before heading back to KL....

I ve got so many details that I will add up later...hehehhe

Him
9 feb 2009 10.57am

Langkawi trip...best trip ever... agreed.. She said 'we were still friends at that time (I mean he and me)...' I don't agree.. just friends..we was best friend back then and now...
We went with another two beloved buddies, miss f and mr s...hehehe yup true....
What I can remember bout the trips : -
1. The small ferry..

2. First time drive Toyota Avanza and also the red Proton Saga.. hard to start hehehe..

3. Langkasuka Hotel :- big rooms,comfortable,beach (not suitable for swimming)...

4. 'cok pisang' (fried banana demm very nice...) I think the shop is near the 'Beras Terbakar'.
5. Driving around the island looking for breakfast,lunch and dinner....
6. Need a holiday break...

Bedtime Stories

Her
13 jan 2009 10.36am

It had been few weeks before we get the chance to watch this movie...(sold out ticket)...we both have been waiting for the movie but we never did place any booking for the ticket...hahaha

If Im not mistaken, it was on saturday evening right dear? Where at dear?
One Utama right? (that sandwich guy who was so interested in you...hahaha)

Adam Sandler never fail to make me laugh...he loves Adam Sandler...we laugh most of the time...this is like Adam's previous film...simple but yet entertaining...the entire theater was laughing through the entire movie... it was set up like a fairy tale and thats exactly how it looks...this is the type of movie that you have to just simply enjoy it and leave that 'logical brain' outside the theater...hehehe

He was quite disappointed cause there is no 'timeout chocolate' this time...hehehe

Him
14 jan 2009 4.01am

At last... we were able to get a good seat for this movie.. we tried before but its either front row or sold out... From the movie poster, we can expect its a movie that full of comedy, kids, happy ending and off course Adam Sandler... I loves Adam Sandler's movie and lately movies produced/played by Adam Sandler is more on family issues and of course been represented in a funny way...
So I am bit biases when movie involved Adam Sandler so for me the movie is very entertaining and funny...
Ya I do remember the sandwich guy (JJ's Super Sandwiches) hehehe just friend ma... just for the record Im a 'straight guy'....
No 'timeout chocolate' this time but a large soft drink hehehe..

Short synopsis for the film:
Hotel handyman Skeeter Bronson's life is changed forever when the bedtime stories he tells his niece and nephew start to mysteriously come true. He attempts to take advantage of the phenomenon, incorporating his own aspirations into one outlandish tale after another, but it's the kids' unexpected contributions that turn Skeeter's life upside down.

'Merisik'

Flashback on the 28 December 2008

'Merisik', which is a customary visit by a groom aspirant to seek the parents' consent for an engagement with their daughter.


Him
13 jan 2009 5.18 a.m

28 December 2008 is not just a date but simply one of the important date of my life...
On that day, my parents, my uncle(spokeperson) and aunties, my sister and myself went to her parent's house for 'merisik'. With a ring for the event, on

The happiest day of my life.. a lot of arrangement....


Her
13 jan 2009 10.17am

True dearrrrrr...its the happiest day...thank you sayang...memuahhh

Everyone's looks incredibly happy...(not to mention us who are definitely flying high...hehe)...

I cant find any words to describe the happiness...now I find it hards to put things into words...hahaha...

I ll put in the details for the day as soon as I can find some free time...

Missing him now...:(

Journals

Her

12 jan 2009 5.40pm

Begin.Grow.Flow by Starsbucks...I love the quote... Journal produced by Starbucks...he bought for me...tq sayangggg...memuahhhh

I love every quote that been included in the journal...

I love the way the journal been represented...the message about environmental issues been presented indirectly but effectively...hmmm...

I love the journal...and I love the person who gave me the journal...hehehe

'Each new day, we'll think of you. To hear you laugh and see you smile. To share in the simple act of pure joy that makes your live beautiful.'

'Think of something not for what it once was, but for what it can be.'

Just sharing a few quotes that sounds so pleasant to the ears...hehehe

Passion in writing journal starts few years back...when there are things that cant be explained verbally...hence, writing is the best medium to express my feeling...he is my major journal 'flavor'...unspoken feeling for a long long long time...:)

That was a long time ago...since 'that day', my journal is full with our dating details...our future plan...our important dates...everything is about him...:)

Slowly, he is now falling in love with the idea of sharing thought with others...even he doesnt have any journal yet...the passion in writing is growing inside him...hehehe...and 'ours-we.blogspot.com' is the prove for that...:)

Him
12 jan 2009 5.40pm

The label of this entry is interest and she really loves writing journal however writing journal is not my cup of tea. But I love reading what other people wrote...

For the past two years, I actively read blogs and also serious stuff through internet due to spare time of my works. I came across a lot of different personal style of writing depends on the blog contents.

My topic of interest is more on personal blogs and political blogs... I amazed how some blogger able to write with beautiful and simple phrases and words... Compare to me having problem to translate what in my head to words... maybe a writer's block syndrome hehehe

However as for her... writing is her passion and we can see that the words count of her compare to mine hehehe

Anyway I don't have access to all her journal YET.... hehehee maybe I should steal and publish here... I love secret hahahha..

Happy blogging....

Four Christmases

Her

12 jan 2009 2.27pm

Friday 09 jan 2009 at 3.25pm

Im the one who choose the movie...:) when he keeps bugging on watching another movie... it just him who love to make fun of me...:p

I think my skill on movie selection is far better than him (Max Payne is a so-so movie dear...hehehe...you are the one who choose that movie right???hmmm)

I went with him on friday evening and it sure lightened our moods. It is funny, and fun....even Im not so 'into' with Vince Vaughn (btw I love Reese Witherspoon) but Brad and Kate had we laughed through out the film...one incident after another...4 different christmases venue will definitely create enough chaos...At first, I didnt quite understand why did they make out in the restroom but few minutes later I'll get it (after had he laughed at me...:p)...hehehe...I love this kind of movies...Im looking for next movie darling...its your choice this time...we'll see the selection skill level...*wink wink

Him
12 jan 2009 11.07pm

Friday 09 jan 2009 at 3.25pm

On that day I want to watch 'Histeria' a local ghost malay movie... support our local movie rite... hehehe
However on that day... the truth...the only ENGLISH movie available is Four Christmases and we don't have to choose...hehehe
The movie is funny and enjoy to watch... There are different element of comedy, family relationship, celebration and love... The couple with same principle, don't want to get marry, no children and off course no Christmas... all bout them having fun together...

No twisted plot, straight forward story line yet well blend of different element and off course chocolate 'TIMEOUT'... opsss one more thing.. watching with her heheheh...
Can't wait for next movie dating hehehe (hope no more movie dating nightmare : Max Payne).

Short synopsis of the film:

When upscale, happily unmarried San Francisco couple Kate and Brad find themselves socked in by fog on Christmas morning, their exotic vacation plans morph into the family-centric holiday they had, until now, gleefully avoided. Out of obligation--and unable to escape--they trudge to not one, not two, but four relative-choked festivities, increasingly mortified to find childhood fears raised, adolescent wounds reopened... and their very future together uncertain. As Brad counts the hours to when he can get away from their parents, step-parents, siblings and an assortment of nieces and nephews, Kate is starting to hear the ticking of a different kind of clock. And by the end of the day, she is beginning to wonder if their crazy families' choices are not so crazy after all.

The new beginning of....

Private Life, Personal Matters, Love Life, , Working Life, Entertainment Life........

Basically its our life.....

Her
12 jan 2009 1.39am

He makes us do it...
Seeing the bright side of sharing ideas...
Memorizing the sweet moments and letting go the bitter one...

Read this somewhere- 'Love is the enchanted dawn of every heart...'

The decision to here is ours...this state...this place...this time...


Him
12 jan 2009 4.03am

Finally...

With the help of her... I ehh WE have a blog, webblog or whatever you called...

The private life of me, her and us that will always belongs to 'ours'...

Her

13 jan 2009 8.05am

It takes few hours to get used to this 'blogging sindrome'...

Now i understand how do people tend to spend 7 to 8 hours sitting just in front their workstation updating their blog...hehehe

Its fun and exciting...hope teh spirit keeps alive especially for u sayang...:)

Got lots more to learn and explore...